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Introducing DragonflyYOU

/ Alex

Alexandra Stacey announces
the launch of
DragonflyYOU.

The death of a spouse wipes out not only the life of the person who died, but also that of the spouse left behind. Marriage and like-married relationships, when done right, take two lives and entwine them together in ways both obvious and imperceptible.

Until death do us part.

But no one stops to think about what happens after we invoke the shittiest clause in the contract!!!

There is a time immediately following a widow’s loss where the pain is all-consuming. Despair, fear, and a weakness that encompasses the mind, body, and spirit take over and the darkness descends.

The ‘five stages of grief’ were never meant to describe the journey of the widow. They are a blanket explanation of the path of the dying.

A widow’s journey is something completely different.

Our timeline is a varied as we are. The stages are a hit-and-miss jumble of chaos. The healing isn’t the healing we expect it to be.

But in the end, the grief never goes away. It never lessens. We don’t ever ‘get over it.’

The grief becomes a part of us.

At some point, we start to learn to live with it.

And that’s where DragonflyYOU steps in.

When a widow begins to wonder, ‘Now what?‘

When she begins to think, ‘There has to be more than this.‘

When she reaches the point where she wants more than the day to day wallow in the pit of self-pity.

DragonflyYOU is the next step.

Focusing on rebirth, change, transformation, and self-realization, the dragonfly as a symbol is the signal to move forward and learn to create an incredible new self, with hope, strength, and purpose.

To build a whole new existence that brings back the joy of living a life that we choose, that we create, that we enjoy.

When you’re ready.

Or if you know someone you think is ready.

DragonflyYOU.com

Helping women turn grief into a fabulous Second Act.

DragonflyYOU.com

Check Out ‘A Road To Joy’ on Audible!!!

/ Alex

Nobody ever tells you about the multitude of milestones in a writer’s journey.

Today is a big one…

I am proud as punch to announce the release of

A ROAD TO JOY

now available on

AUDIBLE!!

( and Apple’s ‘Books’ app, and Amazon!)

If you’re an audio version fan, or if you’ve always wanted to try one, this is a great one to download.

Narrated by voice actor extraordinaire, Rachel Music, I am beside myself with the results. Her ability to make every character – from 5-year-old Gilda, to hot sexy Sam – come to life is astounding! Her depth of emotion, her sense of sarcasm, and mastery of angst are something every audio fan needs to experience.

Link over to Audible. Download it an give it a listen. And please, let us know what you think. Good bad or otherwise, we want to hear from you!

Now if you’ll excuse me, I have some cartwheels to get started on out back…

Alex.

Here’s Why Those Reviews Matter

/ Alex

If you go to Amazon.com to buy my book, the first thing you do is type the title into the Search bar.

“A Road To Joy”

One would expect to see my book. But here’s a screenshot of what you get:

Yeah. There are 6 (!!!) books (okay, one’s not even a book…) that come up in the search before mine does. And of the six of them, not one is an exact match for the search parameters. (That’s me, second row, third one from the left. Seventh, and the first exact match…)

You see, Amazon, and any other sales site for that matter, rank their products based on a number of factors. But when it comes to books, reviews are the key. And it doesn’t take many reviews for a book to get bumped up a few notches.

But here’s the real kicker. I’ve entered A Road To Joy into the 2019 Kindle Storyteller Contest. As contests go, there’s a huge popularity component to being recognized, or even considered for that matter. But with books, popularity is pretty much the point.

So in the end, those reviews matter. Telling friends about the book matters. Lending them your copy is a great way to share it – just remind them to leave a review. On Amazon if the book is purchased there. On A Road To Joy’s website if not.

The bottom line is, I’ve written lots of other stuff. But A Road To Joy is something that I honestly think is worthy of the recognition a contest of this magnitude would bring. So I’m pestering big time for your help. And it’s a good story. So I’m promising a great entertainment value in return.

With Overwhelming Gratitude,
Alex.

It’s All About The Reviews!

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Let’s put aside for a moment the fact that it’s unbelievably cool to hear what people think about something you think you aced.

Like this message from Dianne yesterday:

"I just finished your wonderful book for the 2nd time.  

"I loved it both times but the 2nd time I took longer to read it and it touched me in ways I missed during the first time.  Thanks for sharing.  Overwhelming Gratitude."  
~ Dianne

I’ve discovered the Joy in hugging myself!

Anyway, to get a book out into the masses, an author and her publishing company have to spend gobs of money on advertising and marketing, tons of time travelling and planning, and every ounce of energy they have trying to get people who read the book to tell others what they thought about it.

No matter how you release a book, the end game is the same. Word of mouth is what makes or breaks a book. And because I am both tremendously proud of this work and I truly believe it’s meant to help people, I’m pushing for those reviews.

If you purchase your copy from Amazon, they’ll send you an email asking you for a review. Please save it for when you’ve finished reading A Road To Joy, and then use the link to share your thoughts.

If you get a copy from me, however, you can leave your review here on the website at REVIEWS. The website’s listed on the back cover of the book as well. (You can also copy your Amazon comments into the REVIEWS page here to really get your comments out there!)

And rest assured that the Gratitude I feel when someone takes the time to respond to my words is, to say the least, Overwhelming!

Alex.